What is it about?

This essay, poem, and song are about cultivating gratitude for our gifts, overcoming obstacles to serving others, and how a dying patient's courage reminds us that we can provide comfort and strength even in dire circumstances. By learning from others and sharing our gifts, we can strength the spirit.

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Why is it important?

* Gratitude is powerfully linked to well-being. Regularly counting our blessings and appreciating what we have can boost mood, relationships, resilience, and purpose. Recognizing the gifts we've been given helps fuel us to share our gifts with others. * Overcoming obstacles takes wisdom and courage. None of us are perfect, and all will face challenges in using our talents to help others. Being aware of pitfalls like burnout, yet not letting fear stop us, allows our gifts to shine through. * Finding meaning in suffering is complex yet important. When faced with incurable illness and death, our usual sources of purpose may feel threatened. But your story illustrates how connecting humanely with compassion and presence can be profoundly meaningful for both individuals, even in the bleakest times. * Sharing stories matters. Our collective wisdom gets passed down through openness, vulnerability, and reflecting deeply on experience. By articulating lessons learned from patients, caregivers, and your own internal journey, you pass on light to current and future generations. The essay encourages self-reflection about gifts, obstacles, and meaning - and how we can lift each other even in life's most difficult passages.

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I appreciate the opportunity to reflect on life's richest gifts - love, service, and finding light amidst darkness. Writing this piece was an act of gratitude for the remarkable teachers and experiences that have shaped my path as a physician and human being. The patients who've allowed me to walk with them through illness and loss have shown incredible courage, dignity, and warmth of spirit. During difficult nights on call, holding space for someone's transition, I've witnessed the human capacity to face death with grace, even peace. These patients gave me a generous gift - the chance to comfort, accompany, and learn as their physician. I'm also thankful for the gifts of knowledge and skills I've accumulated through teachers, mentors, and training to become a doctor. But it's taken time to embrace these talents fully. Insecurity, burnout, and feelings of helplessness, when the prognosis is poor can obscure the gifts we've been given. I've learned not to let those passing clouds block the sun. Hard times will come, but with openness and self-compassion, we can recalibrate - and rediscover the gifts within us. Music, nature, and beloved friends help me find that reset button. And I renew my sense of purpose in even small acts of compassion - a reassuring touch, listening fully, uplifting a discouraged nurse with kind words. I wrote this piece as a reminder to keep shining light into the world, even on the stormiest days. Never forget the gifts we've received and share them abundantly with all beings. Our lives intertwine; we travel together. May we walk into the unknown with brave hearts, heads held high.

Thomas F Heston MD
University of Washington

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This page is a summary of: We Thank You Lord, SSRN Electronic Journal, January 2023, Elsevier,
DOI: 10.2139/ssrn.4533216.
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